1. He’s just not that in to you if he’s not asking you out (If a man is excited about a woman, he can’t stop himself)
2. He’s just not that into you if he’s not calling you (If he says he didn’t have a moment in his busy day to call. Bite-me! The real reason is that you are not on his mind).
3.He’s just not that into you if he’s not dating you (A guy who is really into you is going to want you all to himself and want to be alone with you to see if you have a romantic future together)
4. He’s just not that into you if he only wants to see you when he’s drunk ( If he only wants to see you, talk to you and have sex with you when he’s drunk, it ain’t love — it’s sport)
5.He’s just not that into you if he’s disappeared on you (When a man disappears there’s no mixed message. Don’t call and ask why — he’s not in hospital with amnesia! He’s made it clear that he’s so not into you, that he couldn’t even bother to leave you a Post-it).
RUN… AND DELETE his existence… trust me! it’s no worth to keep him around!
“Never make a priority of someone who only makes you an option”
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Now, here are the most obvious signs that he’s serious about the relationship:
1. He calls for No Reason (He misses you; is head over heels for you and; can’t go one more second without speaking to you)
2. He turns up on time (When he says he’s going to be there on the dot at 8pm, he’s never more than a few minutes late. He won’t have a heart to keep you waiting)
3. He Tunes In To Your Every Word (When you’re in a mid conversation at the cafe he doesn’t play with the fork, text messaging nor is he distracted by the conversation at the next table)
4. His friends Know All About you (It’s not like they’ve been asking for these details – it’s just that he can’t stop talking about you 24/7!)
5. He Takes an Interest in Your Interests (When a guy falls for you in a big way he’ll want to know everything about you and that includes a full understanding of your likes and dislikes.
6. He Gives You a Key to His Place (NOT in the first couple of dates of course! but Not only does this gesture shout “I trust you” it also shows that he’s certain you’re going to be in the picture for a long time to come)
7. After Sex he wants to Cuddle and Chat (the afterglow of sex is charged with emotion, touching and intimate disclosures. He wants to know if you had a great climax and wants to tell you how the earth moved for him as well)
8. He’s nice to your friends (and your kids if you have..)
9. He Ask for your Opinion (In just about every decision he makes – from which shirt to wear to a job interview to which kind of car he should buy, he solicits your opinion. This indicates that he respects what you have to say and that he believes you not only have good judgement but have skills, abilities and insights that can help him, improve his life).
10. He Ask you out for parties, family gathering, office party or any social event that will allow him to present you because he’s so proud of standing by your side.