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This mantra drives my friends and family nuts when I uses that phrase. “Are you serious? Is that the best response you can offer me?”
Me: “It is what it is, so why go on about it and make yourself feel worse?” If it has to be like that…then LET THE FUCKIN’ BE! Some friend really react like she wanna punch me in the throat! LOL
Everybody have their own freewill/freedom to choose in life, their own life! weather it is friends, believe, jobs, what they wanna be, place to be or person to love. It’s theirs to decide, because they’re the one that will have to deal with the better or worse of it for the rest of their life. We can't choose other's happiness. Whatever they do or choose, it is valid for them and they're right! respect that!. You..can just watch, mind your own life, mind your own business and Let it Go! Try to fight against other's freewill can only drain your energy, NOT worth it! Let it be...go with the flow. You'll feel massive lift off your shoulders...trust me!
Be the best person you can be, share your luck with less lucky people, forgive, hang out with only those who bring the best in you (eliminate those toxic people all together!), allow life drive it ways, and trust that the Universe/God is friendly, it would only give you the best and it will be delivered to you in the right moment. Love yourself exactly the way you are and you will attract the one you want (people/circumstances) who will like, love and accept you exactly as you are. There is no need to try to be perfect all the time or to please anyone. Let your nature essence shine!
Although sometimes the Universe has to eliminate things/people that blocking all the goodies coming to you, some are painful, hurtful breaking hearts or lost of friendships or precious things. Just Accept and move on. Realize that they're not there for a reason, all for your highest good. Better things are on its way for you. I've experienced this all my life and in the end always make me have to say "Thank God it did happen, if not I won't be where I am and have what I have today!" : ). I've said that gazillion times!
The best for you is yet to come. Start to be grateful for EVERYTHING…. EVERYTHING you have today…and trust me! gratitude always trade you with better things than you're grateful for! You’ll draw things that belongs to you effortless, that served the highest good on you and will stay!
I couldn’t imagine if I never let go of the pain and failure in the past, I would never have what I have today! Beautiful amazing children, great job, doing my passion in travel and makeup artistry and make money with it, living in a peaceful country, enjoying fresh air and secure future. I would never visited my best-friend in Washington, or visited places that I couldn't even imagine in my wildest dreams, having precious dream ring of the Kate Middleton, buy my dream Louis Vuitton bag in Paris! Or owning a new Condo in the area where I always wanna live! I could go on and on with my blesses…all because of this MANTRA!
This Mantra feels helpful to be reminded that you’re driving yourself crazy over how things should have been. It’s time to put what happened behind you and figure out how to focus on the future. “it’s not going to change, so get over it already. Stop whining. Stop complaining. Shut up and deal with it.”
The message suggests that things are what they are. Accept it. Don’t expect things to be any different. C'est la vie!!
It is has everything to do with the Law of Allowing, one of the most powerful Law in this universe. Meaning that everytime you feel bad, judging someone, criticizing, jealousy, hate, fear, not respecting how the pace is happening, u want thing to be different than it is..when you want other people to do different in order for you to be happy..you are just being constricted! (I call it: Bitchy!). And this bitchy feeling is blocking you from receiving anything good that is coming your way. You’re not allowing better things to come to you. You’re clearly telling the Universe/God that is NOT enough things in this planet to go around, so you have to fight to get this one! That is so against the Law of Sufficiency! You are telling the Universe/God that he's sucks! Universe/God have Unlimited supplies for everyone in everything; ex. the grass grow effortless, the water, men/women, jobs. It is expanded as needed! So why fight for one thing when there’s more abundance available somewhere else?
However, there's different between Approving & Allowing.
Example: I had a messy breakup marriage back 6 yrs ago, my 10 yrs marriage was broken by a 3rd person that came in the picture. I was in a 2 yrs prolonged devastated & mourning, knowing that my years of trust has been broken, that my children gonna have to suffer of this mess..never in a million years I will approve what he has done to our family, but for me to get my own sense of peace in my life, I needed to accept what he did. If I was to push it against and questioning “why is he do this? How could he do this? What was he thinking? What could I’ve done differently” I will never get to my peaceful space where it might be a better place than I was when he was there.
I accepted and respected, that he has his own valid reason to do so. Only so much I can do, tried to be the best wife and best mother for my kids, bring money on the table too...but just never enough for some people. So, I let go and say my mantra everyday, I allow myself to feel peace and move on.
Sure enough, when I was in the space of allowing and accepting, things start to move forward to my benefits. I get to have things that I wouldn’t have when I was marriage, I get to go places I’ve always wanna go that I could only imagine back then, I get to have a home business that I’ve always wanna have and wouldn’t even dream when I was married. So… soon as I allow things to be as it is … good things start to happen and continue to happen until today.
Accepting what is, being happy no matter what the circumstances, expressing gratitude for our blessings, and greeting irritating situations and people with a compassionate smile.
To me, this is wonderful mantra. There are many things we can’t control, and it makes sense to accept them rather than rail against what you can’t change. So, instead of wining, mourning and should-ing things suppose to go the way I wanted to be, I just simply accept it and move on.
I started to be grateful of what those experience had grant me all that time & what I have got from that life, being thankful for all my blessings. That release me from unhappy feelings and make me see life in a different perspective, and promising that whatever happen it works for my own highest good.
I am a strong believer of the power of self or you can call it Karma. Good or Bad you put out there, it is always coming back to you. Even just as simple as a THOUGH! U think about it..negative or positive toward yourself or others, you’ll bring it into your life! So, whatever happen to me, it is the result of my own past though and actions…so I have to accept it, take full ownership of it and live with it. Try to always be conscious of my own though & actions from there on, making sure it is not harming anyone, because it will come back to me in the future, sooner or later.
So, repeat after me: "it is what it is" so Be!
Namaste!